Life is bitchy, and one of its quirks is a seriously nasty breakup. I guess, there never will be anything more infuriating, painful and deeply soul wrenching as breaking up with someone whom you deeply care for. Well, that is, unless you’re one hell of an asshole and you’re just in it to get laid or worse, for the money.
However, let us not dwell on the pain and the suffering it causes, because I am sure that if you are reading this then you are very much familiar with that already. There are so many ways to get over anything as long as you do not lose hope that you will come out standing despite it all. First thing that you must realize is that even if there are some benefits to having a relationship, there are also a bucket full of joy in being single and available!
Being single after all gives you the freedom to finally find a Mr. Right.
The World Is ONE BIG BUFFET for you!
Here are my Top 4 How to Get Over a Break Up advices:
4. Don’t go back to the old you!
Use this opportunity to form yourself into someone new, someone better.
The best bitch slap you could give to the one that hurt you so much is to show him that you are better off without him. Be reborn! If you were a caterpillar once, then now is your time to be a one hot butterfly. Shed of those pounds you put on. Buy those sexy dresses that show of your curves that your ex didn’t allow you to wear in public. Be daring, be bold, be blazing in your new life, set your world on fire!
Enjoy life! Be someone better, brighter, and a whole lot of fun than the old you!
3. Indulge Yourself:
While in a serious relationship we always spend more time with our partners and less time for ourselves, more time accommodating our partners than have some leisure comforts that we used to enjoy when we were still single.
Indulge yourself, pamper yourself, show yourself some love. You have more time now to do what you could not do before when you were still in a relationship. Go buy that chocolate bonbons that you always wanted your boyfriend to buy for you. Go eat out with your friends at that Thai restaurant that you always wanted to go to but your boyfriend won’t because of his digestion problems. Go to the concert of can pamper yourself! your favorite band. Go, just go! Indulge yourself baby. Don’t wait for any man to pamper you when you when you can pamper yourself!
Focus on those that are important and that you can get results from, it is always good in our egos if we have some successes in our lives, even if how they are. Better yet do some charity work; join a cause; fight for the rights of others.
Do something productive.
Simple successes in life give us the much needed assurance that we are in control of our destiny.
Be a person for others, give love and that love will come back.
Always remember that you are someone priceless. Never allow the pain and suffering tarnish your value and the worth of your life. Don’t allow mere circumstance to dictate the course of your life. Always put in mind that you are the captain of your vessel! Stand up! Stay strong! Life maybe bitchy, but never forget that you own your life and that you can slap that bitchiness out of life.